The 1 Financial Decision That Will Either Make or Break Your Dream

I want to become a Ninja. I quit my job in America, moved to Japan, and am now making it happen.

Sounds great… right?

Except there is a major flaw, a huge problem, something that has to be screaming at you in the face… “What about money?”

Should money be a dream crusher?

Excuse my bluntness but money is a big F’ing deal.

How would the following sound to you: I’m 30 years old, I quit my job, I have no money, I am going in massive debt to follow a dream, I want to be a ninja.

Sound inspirational?

I certainly hope not!

I think a more appropriate label would be INSANELY STUPID! Fortunately that is not the case at all…

Money and My Dream are not Separate Entities

The pursuit of my dream didn’t start the second I came to Japan. It began before that.

The second I saved that first dollar (for my dream), the pursuit had begun.

The second you start managing your finances in preparation for your dream… You have begun the pursuit of your dream. How do I deal with money when I want to follow my dream?

The Most Important Financial Step I Ever Made

There is one financial decision I made a few years ago that has completely changed my life. I can now enjoy the benefits of money without being stresssed by it. I purchase things I enjoy. I know exactly what I can afford to buy and what I can’t.

Most importantly, it has made it possible to pursue my dream. 

What did I do?

I created a budget.

WAIT A DARN SECOND HERE… This is a site about dreams and ninjas and passion and life and… WHY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT A BUDGET! I HATE BUDGETS! THEY ARE BORING, LAME, AND HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH DREAMS!

Well, I’m sorry, but I can only speak the truth. I am simply sharing what has what allowed me to follow my dream. And one of the biggest things I did was create and follow a budget. You may not like it, but it is the truth

The Case that a Budget is Awesome

Some people think a budget is restrictive. I would argue the opposite, that  a budget is in fact liberating. Why?

Since I incorporate fun expenses such as eating out, purchasing clothes, and buying new electronics into my budget I am able to make these purchses without feeling guilty. I also am able to purchase these things while knowing exactly how much money I am saving each month.

Do you have any idea how awesome it feels to buy a Playstation 3 and save money towards a dream all in one month? It is better than sliced bread (like WAY better!)

y creating a budget I learned my exact monthly cost of living.

This allowed me to discover 2 very important things:

  1. How much I needed to save to pursue my dream.
  2. How much I could save each month towards my dream.

Budgets kicks some serious A$$!

A Final Warning About Budgets.

It normally takes at least 3 months to get a budget right. The first few months it may take a few hours to create it. Yes, you will likely make a bunch of mistakes, and it will seem confusing. But every month it gets way easier. Soon, you will be busting it out in 5 to 10 minutes.

To make it easier on you I am going to give you a budget template that uses everything I show below (don’t worry it’s free). This does all the math for you, so you can figure out your monthly budget in 3 to 4 minutes. You will have access to it a little bit later in the post.

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How to do a budget

Step 1: Categorizing Expenditures

What you need: All your monthly bills (electricity bills, credit card bills, utility bills, cell phone bill, etc), a pencil, and your brain :)

After you have all of those things sit down and get ready to take some action that can put you on the first step to following your dream….

Write out the following 3 categories: Entertainment, Savings, and Expenses. Pretty much every expenditure you have can go into one of these three categories. Below is a list of exactly what I put in these categories (now remember I live in Japan so my expenses might be a little different – no gas, no car insurance, etc).

Entertainment Eating Out Clothes Miscellaneous/Electronics Travel Personal Development Donations Expenses Electricity Rent Internet Groceries CellPhone Water

Savings Retirement Investing Short Term Investing Regular Savings

Notice when you look at the categories they are fairly general. Rather than having expenses for “go out with friends” , “go to a restaurant” “visit the zoo” “go to a bar” I have one subcategory: Eating out. This just works easier with my brain.

Take Action-Go ahead and write down the 3 categories and list all your expenditures under the appropriate category.

Step 2: Creating the Budget 

After putting my budget on paper for one month I wanted to punch myself in the face. And I don’t know about you but I don’t think this is a good thing. So I created a spreadsheet to track everything.

This is an image of the budget software. You can get it free by signing up below.

As you can see above, it includes the 3 categories (Entertainment, Expenses, and Savings) as well as space for each of the expenditures. 

All you need to do is put your total salary for the month in the upper middle portion where it says salary details. Then fill in the amount for all your monthly expenditures and it will calculate the rest. The above is an example from last June.

Just sign up below and it’s yours free!

Action steps

  1. Sign up to get the Dreamers Budget. Once you confirm your email you will get a link to download it.
  2. Download the Dreamers Budget and put in your subcategories as well as each of your monthly expenses.

or

Create your own sheet (handwritten or excel) and write out all of your expenses next to each expenditure.

Step 3: One Simple Step That makes an Insane Difference

Some people create a budget, figure it all out and then when it comes to living it out they completely fail. They go way overbudget and consequentially void out the entire purpose of having a budget. There is one very simple thing I do, that makes it very difficult to go over budget.

First I created envelopes for each of my categories. I write on each of these envelopes a specific category. For example, I have an envelope for groceries, an envelope for electronics, an envelope for groceries, and so on.

Every month I pull out the exact amount of cash that I will spend that month – groceries, go out money, clothes, electronics, etc.

Money that will not be spent such as savings or automatic bill payments are left in my bank account.

I then look at my budget and place that exact dollar amount inside of each envelope. So if I wrote down that I would have $150 for ”going  out” that month then I place $150 in cash in the “going out” envelope.

When the envelope is empty… I can’t spend anymore. I love using this envelope system because I never have to think about it. If I have money in the envelope I am within budget. If I don’t have any more money in the envelope than I can’t afford it. Plain and simple.

Bringing it Back to The Dream

So when I began to dabble with the idea of moving to a foreign country and following my dream I created a new envelope. I labeled it “the dream”. Do you have any idea how good it felt too put money in that envelope? It felt awesome! I knew each month I was taking steps to turn my dream into a reality.

Money should not be “the reason you can’t achieve your dream”… Rather it should be the first step in turning your dream into a reality.

Is money part of your dream?

  • http://twitter.com/FrequentFlosser Frequent Flosser

    Izzy,

    Great post.  I think you are seeing life as a “business” to control your money.  Budgeting, cash flow, and controlling expenses are all essential parts.

    I’d also like to add that your personal balance sheet, income statement, and cash flow statement  are also vital parts to understanding your financial situation.  

    Will

    • http://www.30yearoldninja.com/ Izmael Arkin

      I think when we follow our passion and try to turn it into a business then we have to intertwine the two (life and business) right? 

      Yes, I completely agree that the my personal income sheet has helped me immensely. No doubt. 

  • Lind$ey

    I LOVE budgets!  I have had my own for as long as I can remember and it definitely helps.  Mine is not as fancy and high tech as yours (I just have it made on a Word document.  I think I would love excel but I don’t know how to use it). 
    A problem I have run into lately (well, maybe all the time) is that I often go over budget due to misc expenses that I didn’t think about. For instance, this month I had to pay for some practice exams, my license, etc.  I guess what I’ll need to do now is add in to my “personal” budget my “business” budget
    I think another problem I have is having too many damn payments.  How do I get rid of that?  ;)

    PS I’m not sure how to access your budget template since I have already signed up for your emails and stuff. 

    • http://www.30yearoldninja.com/ Izmael Arkin

      First off nice work adding the “$” sign to your name. I strongly encourage you to start signing all your paperwork this way.

      I don’t think the format of the budget matters that much. I think just having one is a huge deal. I think the big thing is that you have a game plan with your money. Which sounds like you do.

      As I am working towards developing a business I put money aside every month that goes into a separate checking account. This is my “business bank account”. Any expenses from the business go into this account… And hopefully soon money will also start going in it as well.

      In terms of getting rid of the payments there really is only one solution – get involved with illegal activity, make a fat wad of cash, and pay off all your debt…

      Actually, check out http://www.daveramsey.com . His program is F’ing awesome. I used his exact method to kill all of my debt. The great thing about his business/financial coaching is that it really focuses on people’s psychology rather than just the math. Which I think is really important.

      For future notice you can generally look at any of the previous emails I have sent you and there is normally a link to access the toolkit. I’ll go ahead and send you an email that gives you the link to the toolkit and a direct download link to the spreadsheet.

      I am working on making it so subscribers can just enter their email in any of the locations on the site and it will automatically give them access to the toolkit. But it will take a little bit of time to do it.

  • http://www.vishnusvirtues.com/ Vishnu

    thanks for breaking it down Izzy! Budgets and money, like you say are super important. I do all this mentally which is probably not the best idea and took some suggestions from finance writer Ramit Sethi on how to save my money every month which has worked an helped me save up for this trip. Basically put the money into subaccounts (envelopes) before you even see it. Then whatever I have left is what I spend. Not sure if I have the patience to implement this brilliant system you have going. You’re going Ernst & young on your personal savings which is great!

    I’m not sure about a full excel spreadsheet (lol) but maybe I can write with writing stuff down? Great tips, lot of value here on the practicality of not only following one’s dream but how to save your $$ to save your life! lol and awesome video. looks like you’re in a huddle with your reader and you’re telling them to go turn the other team into chopped liver (in budget talk of course). keep up the great work! 

    • http://www.30yearoldninja.com/ Izmael Arkin

      Ramit Sethi is the man! That dude knows how to manage some money :)

      Obviously I am a huge advocate for having a budget but you got to do what works for you. If it is working and your finances are in good order there is no need to fix something that aint broken (but maybe this is a way for you to “shake it up” :) )

      I love the envelope system. I discovered it a few years ago from Dave Ramsey and it changed everything for me. It just makes everything so much easier so I don’t have to think.

      I know that money is a hot button issue and it makes some folks uncomfortable but I feel like it is very important so I wanted to bring it up :) .

      Also, thanks for the comments about the video. I just bought a new video camera (specifically for the blog) this last weekend. I got annoyed with the low quality from my iphone (yes, they have iphones in Japan) and felt it would provide a lot more value to everyone if the quality was better… Plus, I have a lot of fun making them. I am planning to incorporate video in most of my posts from here on out.

  • http://www.modernmom.com/blogs/wendy-irene Wendy Irene

    Izzy, I loved this post! I am such a budget person. I’ve
    been making mine in excel. I can’t tell you how much I love in the summer that
    my heat bill is less than my heat budget :) It’s the little things! I have
    definitely failed at implementing it in the past though, so your envelope idea
    is fantastic. I spend a silly amount of time adding up receipts each week for
    my budget because I don’t typically use cash. It is awesome you are sharing
    your budget spreadsheet. What a great thing to do to help people!

    • http://www.30yearoldninja.com/ Izmael Arkin

      Awesome Wendy!

      It cracks me up because people who are “budget people” really do love their budgets. I am the exact same way. I think it is SOOO powerful. It is not an understatement to say it has truly changed my life.

      You got crazy discipline if you are adding up receipts. I tried that a few years ago and it ended after about 5 minutes. I say “more power to you” if that works for you :)

      If you decide to implement the envelope system let me know how it works out. Shoot me an email at izzy@30yearoldninja.com

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  • http://twitter.com/jodymlamb Jody Lamb

    Izzy, you are great! What a resource for dreamers. Gosh. There’s a lot of shoot-for-the-moon motivational talk available if you go looking for it but very little truly practical advice about how to go about making it happen. Big high five.

    • http://www.30yearoldninja.com/ Izmael Arkin

      E-Hi-Five with a fist pound right back at you Jody :)

      I one hundred percent agree with you. There is a ton of stuff out there that says “you can do anything!” “Go be amazing” “quit your job, follow your passion” which can be great and inspirational when done in the right moment. 

      But sometimes I think what people really want and need is practical application. I hope to be able to provide more of that as I move forward with becoming a ninja :)

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  • http://www.heartinghandmade.com Maša

    I love your envelope technique! I’ve been doing my budget the old school way for the last four years. it does help me, but it’s limited and time consuming when I start to calculate. I guess it’s time to finally switch to a more modern method. ;) I’ll let you know how it goes!

    • http://www.30yearoldninja.com/ Izmael Arkin

      Awesome Masa :) . I have now been using the envelope method for almost 5 years and it has blown me away with how much it simplifies everything. I don’t ever have to think about it. I just put it in the envelope and when the money is gone, then that part of my budget is done :) .

      Definitely let me know how it goes.

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